Thursday, May 07, 2009
Tuesday, December 23, 2008
Thursday, November 27, 2008
later he cheered up, and started looking for ways to weather the storm.
when all the news is shit, the best strategy is to paint n()k()d.
it's hard to reconcile economic apocalypse with a 2 year-old's sense of fun.
Seriously though, there's been such an incredible shift in ethos lately - it's a psychological vortex out there. I'm glad we have a 2 year-old's perspective on life to remind us of what's important.
Thursday, November 06, 2008
We miss you Marcus.

Nov 15, 2007It's been a sad week as we say goodbye and "next time" to our good friend Marcus Dressel, who left us on November 7, 2007 following a dignified fight with cancer. Marcus was the kind of guy that didn't just "stop to smell the flowers", as they say; he would pull out his Canon SLR with its paparazzo lens and take a hundred photos of them in macro, photoshop them and put them up online. He had an eye for details that we all pass by, and the calm to stop and enjoy them. He was the kind of person that would call you up just to tell you about something funny he'd seen on TV or in a movie. We'll remember the way that he didn't just tell stories, he narrated them, including the one of his "unique" first experience as a midwife [2008: This video has now been viewed 41,000+ times].
His departure from this world is just such a tremendous loss.
For those of you attending the memorial on Saturday, Carolynn will be collecting cards and photos in a "memory box" to share with his family and daughter Katelyn.
UPDATE: I learned at the service that Marcus had 3 (three!) separate Bachelor's degrees (I thought he had two) - in psychology, geography and education, as well as a diploma in criminology. It has been amazing to see the outpouring of comments about how respected he was as a teacher in New West. We always suspected he was good at his vocation, but the many comments from students about him have given ample support to his sister Barb's point: one of the greatest tragedies of Marcus' passing is the loss of a rare and true mentor to students (here is but one example).
We've had a few inquiries from people who would still like to contribute to the memory box. I'm sure Kristina would still welcome contributions.
It's fitting that Marcus would leave an online presence:
Here is a great slide show of Marcus.
Here are some memories in the guest book on remembering.ca.
Here is the thread about him on Takethepiss.com.
Here is a link to the 1,172 images that Marcus ("keeper") took on the soccer pitch. (He posted 5,532 times on the takethepiss bulletin board, or 2.75 posts a day!, which I guess indicates how passionate he was about soccer and how prominent he was in the local community). Somewhere out there is a BC Lottery scratch n'win with his soccer photo on it (it was a great shot and they called him up and asked to use it), but I can't seem to find it anywhere...
See also the links at right to his blog and Katelyn's web-page.
Sunday, November 02, 2008
Thursday, October 30, 2008
a couple of weeks ago Evan was dancing with his bicycle pump (yes, a bike pump, when he sees it he likes to dance with it)...anyway, he was flying allover the living room and landed forehead-first on this plant pot. He split it in four places--it's cracked all the way down and up the back too, but you can't see it in these shots--with his head. He was okay, but had a nice goose-egg as you can see above. Mom had her concussion diagnosis kit out (she was on google), and I was recalling my concussion skills from babysitting school.


Here are some pics from Evan picking his pumpkin from our garden. In the spring, we planted the seeds, but apparently you have to pollinate them yourself, which we didn't know, so the pumpkin was, well, impotent I guess and didn't grow. We couldn't bring ourselves to see the disappointment on his face, so I bought a pumpkin at the store and snuck it into the garden. He was pretty impressed with himself as you can see...
Friday, October 10, 2008
We're still alive....
If anyone still reads this thing, I finally got around to putting up some more photos. Mostly from the summer, but that's fitting, because I'm still denying that it's October. Evan has outgrown even his big-boy bed (formerly a crib) now, and sleeps in a queen. Today I measured him and he's grown 3/4" in the last month, though admittedly this is in the margin of error of the two-year-old-butter-knife-measurement method--I can't measure him with spoons anymore. Even so, it's a lot. Yesterday we wintered the vegetable garden and Evan's not running around outside naked anymore, so summer must be over.
I hope this finds you well. Thanks for stopping by.
Evan's vegetable garden that we put in this year. Evan and I dug for about a month. His shovel's in the background; he brought a lot of labour to the project.
Monday, September 22, 2008
Tuesday, March 04, 2008
Happy March, and happy birthday to the 75% of the Canadian population that was born this month. Things have been pretty hectic around here--hence the dark blog--mostly stemming from our recent "move" (in quotes, because moving requires unpacking, and we haven't really done much of that) a couple of weeks ago into our new house. It's exciting to have a yard for Evan and we are starting to feel more settled. Here are a few pics/videos from the last month. I'll try and get some more up soon.
Cute
We bought Evan a microphone on the weekend (we've been watching Bobby McFerrin videos and he's always asking what the mic is).
We finally have a choreboy
When she was trying to convince me to have a wee-baby, Carolynn promised me that one day this would come to pass. And now, here we are, and well, [sniff] it feels just as emotional as that first moment that Evan entered this world and opened his eyes. Like suddenly, everything becomes clear, you know?, and you have this sense that, whatever happens, we're going to be alright.
Saturday, January 12, 2008
Wednesday, January 09, 2008
Looks like your typical sweet and innocent gingerbread house....
Christmas eve at Oma and Grandpa's house. Can you imagine when we used to do this and most of the 22 cousins were less than 10?
Friday, December 14, 2007
What a day!
Today will be great for sure. I just woke up to discover that my dream of having a glow-in-the-dark cat has been realized! Red too. How great is that?
Cloned cats that glow.
Sunday, December 09, 2007
Way back in October
I never did get a chance to post pictures of Evan's halloween. He was a kangaroo and it was a lot of fun. He loved the pumpkin lights but showed no interest in the candy.
An attempt at a group photo at the halloween baby party.
Evan getting his "wow that is so amazing" look at the big pumpkin in the picture below.
With best buddy Evan Cropp (a super-cute monkey)
Not to be moralistic,
but this tragedy back home is a useful reminder that we should all slow down this holiday season.
Trucker charged in McLeod Trail Tragedy (Calgary Herald)











































































